Monday 30 November 2009

From a Former Moldovan Orphan



Dear BCA families,

My name is Gheorghe Meyer and I am in 8th grade at BCA. I am writing this hoping that you will help me raise money for beds for orphans in Gulu, Uganda. I really want to help raise money for these orphans because I was an orphan for three years, and got a bed from Sweet Sleep.

Before I was adopted from Moldova, I received a bed from Sweet Sleep. Before I received the new bed the old one was very horrible to sleep in because it was barely standing. The springs were broken and sagging to the ground, and the mattress was dirty and smelly. I was very happy and excited after I got the new bed because it was a lot more comfortable to sleep in. That bed was the most comfortable bed that I had ever slept in during my orphanage life. Getting a new bed can very much change your life. I did not only get a new bed but I also got a new winter coat through Sweet Sleep. Even though I had been in the orphanage two years, that was the first time I got a coat. That summer when another Sweet Sleep team came to see us, I accepted Jesus in my life. At the same time I also met my future father.

My friend Jen Gash is in the picture below. She started Sweet Sleep. She is going to spend Christmas with orphans in Gulu, a region in Uganda, Africa. These are orphans who are not in an orphanage, but over 750,000 kids who are being raised by teenagers. Most sleep on the ground, with no bed, and many die from malaria. Jen wants to give everyone of them a mosquito net, which costs $8, and wants to give a bed to as many as possible. A bed is $80. So, it would cost $88 for the bed and the mosquito net. If you want to donate, you can donate at www.sweetsleep.org, or bring a check to BCA made out to Sweet Sleep and I’ll get the money to her before she leaves for Uganda.

Sunday 29 November 2009

Four Ways to Donate to Sweet Sleep

This holiday season consider making a donation to Sweet Sleep to help fund our goal of placing 450 beds to Orphans in Northern Uganda. Here are three ways you can contribute:

• Give the Gift of Sweet Sleep This Christmas! Want to make this Christmas
special for an orphan in northern Uganda? Help us provide beds for 450
children in Gulu this Christmas by giving a gift in memory or honor of
someone you love! We'll send a holiday card to your honoree letting them
know they are loved and orphans are getting beds because of your generosity.
Give the Gift of Sweet Sleep today at www.sweetsleep.org/donate, reference AJG 1209

• Or send a check made out to Sweet Sleep and mail to 308 Timmons St. Nashville, TN 37211 reference AJG 1209

• Shop!!! Visit Casey Copeland’s Silpada website, but contact her directly via email or phone to be part of the Sweet Sleep Silpada order. Be sure to order by Wednesday and mention this party. All profit from this party will be donated to our trip to Gulu.
Casey Copeland
Independent Representative, Silpada Designs
217-483-5353
ccopeland1012@yahoo.com
www.mysilpada.com/casey.copeland


• Purchase my photographs at http://aprilgulley.zenfolio.com Choose your prints and size online. Zenfolio will accept your payment and ship to you directly. All purchases made prior to January 6th will go directly to the December Sweet Sleep trip to Uganda.

Your comment here:

In the last few weeks since I’ve decided to travel to Northern Uganda, I’ve received various comments:

“wow that’s so amazing, you’re going to have a life changing experience”

“you have BALLS!!”

“why can’t you go somewhere that is safer?”

“I know enough about Africa, that I will NEVER visit that continent”

“what you’re doing is so fantastic, thank you for doing such great work”

The funny thing is, the trip I’m about to embark on, I don’t find amazing in the sense that my actions are amazing, I don’t think I have “balls”, I believe it’s what you do. I’ve been fortunate enough to have all of my needs met in some manner in the past 32 years, isn’t it my responsibility to go pay that forward? Whether I choose to feed the homeless in Nashville, donate my time at woman’s shelter, or travel half way across the world to provide beds to even a small percentage of the displaced children of Uganda, I am compelled to make a difference in at least one person’s life.

It is true Northern Uganda has had it’s far share of strife and civil war in the past 20 years, but currently things are relatively peaceful. Am I a little nervous, yes. Are the living conditions I’m about to witness, unlike anything I’ve ever seen yes. I wonder how I’m going to handle being around children with hungry bellies, when I know I will have food provided for me that day or even if I go a little hungry while I’m in Africa, it’s only 3 short weeks for me, not my life time, that I’ll have to experience that constant ache of hunger. Sure the conditions we may be sleeping in may be rough, but again I know it’s not my lifetime that I will have to experience this.

The comments that usually bother me the most whether it’s about Uganda or another part of the globe are the ones when people say “I’d never go there”….fill in with whatever narrow minded, media driven, opinion, that stereotypes whichever part of the world they are referring to. I remind myself frequently that most people are fearful of the unknown and things that are unlike their world. I think it’s hard for me to process because that is what drives me, to go to see other parts of the world and to learn about our differences and all of our similarities.

My trip to Uganda I imagine will be amazing and life changing. I’m looking forward to the lessons I will be taught, not necessarily the lessons I will teach.

Thursday 19 November 2009

Shards of Foam


Tonight like many nights a year, I’ll go to bed in a king size hotel bed with high count thread sheets, and down pillows. Tomorrow night, when I get back to Nashville, I’ll fall asleep in a full size bed, down comforter and down sheets. I am very blessed.

In the past week, I’ve been looking a lot at the photos of where Ugandan children sleep every night. Dirt floors. Shards of foam. A thin blanket. No pillow. No blanket. Today, I’ve been challenging myself with the questions: could I endure one night on a dirt floor? Shards of Foam? A thin blanket? I’m sure I could, but how would I feel in the morning, tired, dirty, sore, would I even sleep as my phobia of rats is so intense, that I would be too petrified to close my eyes. Could I do it for more than one night? Yet there are millions of orphans each night who go to bed on dirt floors, on mattresses that have had every type of human matter soak through for years, on shards of foam, with or without a blanket and even with rats.

Since I decided to travel to Gulu with Jen, I’ve been attempting to prepare myself for what I’m about to witness. The other night I was having drinks with my friend, Sil and I said “I’m really trying to mentally prepare for this trip. I’ve seen homeless, poverty and the hungry, here in the states and in other third world countries. But I don’t believe I’m prepared to see 1 million displaced people with no home, food, access to clean water or medical treatment”. Sil said to me “you can’t prepare. The first time I went to India I almost had a nervous breakdown”. I thought to myself “yikes, I feel a lot of tears brewing”…and I’m not a crier.

Last night, I was chatting with Margaret (Jen’s best friend), she mentioned both she and her husband someday want to go on a Sweet Sleep trip, but she thinks it’d be beneficial for them to go at the same time. Her thought being that a trip will be such a life changing experience that if one went and the other didn’t it could create a divide. I couldn’t have agreed with her more. In the last 8 days, not only have I mentally felt the effects of this trip settling in, I can feel the trip physically changing me as well.

A lot of you have heard me say “I love kids, I love sending them home”, when I play with and hold my friends’ kids who I love and adore, there is no maternal pang or desire to have “my own”. Yet, I’m thinking about these kids I’m about to meet who have no parents, who are hungry, who have seen things in their young lives, that we as Americans can’t even fathom. My heart hurts, I literally feel my heart strings being pulled from 15,000 miles away. I’m going to hug and hold every child there I can get my hands on. In fact today, I was thinking would my photography suffer, because I’d be too busy being in the moment, rather than capturing the moment.

About a month ago, I was having a conversation with a colleague of mine, who I believe was traveling in Peru, when the group she was traveling with came across some children. She went to go play with one and a doctor she was with warned her to stay away, because the child appeared to have an infection of some sort. I personally, felt that was a travesty, I thought to myself, if I’m ever in that situation I will not be afraid and I will trust that God will protect me and keep me healthy while I play with the child.

In the days to come there will be times when my blog is deep and pensive like this one and others when it will be funny, silly or grateful. I am blessed that you care and you read. I am grateful for your prayers, your positive thoughts, your best wishes. I hope as you go to bed tonight and you lay your head down, you think about how you can make someone else’s place of rest sweet.

Tuesday 17 November 2009

As My Life Turns.....

In my life the things I’ve been meant to do have come easily. As a young girl, I fell in love with California and knew when I was “old” (in my young mind, 30 was old back then) I would move to California.

Right after college, I took a job as a Manager in Training at Family Video (a local Central Illinois video store). I lasted one day. I had to drive from Taylorville back to Jacksonville, on the way home, I decided to stop in Springfield and tell my parents the news. I was NOT cut out to be a manager in training at a video store. My parents weren’t terribly shocked from the news and completely supportive of my decision. I called my roommate back in Jacksonville to tell her that I wouldn’t be coming home for the night, she said “I’m so glad you called- Heather from the Fun Company (a company I had worked for in the summer that year) called, you HAVE to call her back tonight, there’s a job in their California office”. You could say the rest was history…I called Heather that night, interviewed for the job a few days later, 2 weeks after that I was in my red GMC Jimmy, with my roommate, Mary in the passenger seat, U-Haul hitched to the back, cruising out to Sacramento. Really, it was as simple as that, I was 23 and was living in California.

Some day over a beer, I’ll tell you about how homesick I was at the age of 23 and the huge panic attack I had, after Mary left and I realized I was out in Sacramento, essentially left alone to my own devices. It’s really an amusing story, but doesn’t serve it’s purpose here.

After 8 months in Sacramento, my contract was up and I moved to LA to live with a good family friend. I landed an interview with a not to be named large incentive house based in St. Louis. I thought I was destined for the job. I didn’t get it. I was devastated for a day, but I brushed myself off and decided that was God’s way of telling me I was meant to stay in California.

A few months of temping as an HR Assistant (which can I tell you…me and Human Resources…yeah don’t really mix, the whole following the rules thing), I was sending my resume out all over California from San Francisco to San Diego. In late February of 2001, I was contacted by a company called The Event Team in San Diego, they were looking for an Office Manager. I drove down, I interviewed and completely envisioned myself in their office. A few short days later, I was told I didn’t get the job. Yet, I could see myself in the office, I recovered from the news and continued plugging away. A couple of weeks later, Lani Ryan from The Event Team calls me, says she heard the office liked me (she had been out of the country when I was interviewing) and there was now an Operations Manager position open….would I be interested? A few short weeks later, I was moving to San Diego to work for The Event Team in a position that was better suited to my experience. This is where I could tell you about how I met my roommates or my best friend Paula (it’s her turn to tell the story), but I’ll save those stories for another blog.


Fast forward through 2004 to 2008, I decided it was time to move from Chicago, but I wasn’t sure where. Jen (whom I’ve known for 15 years- which let me tell you, you are going to want to stay tuned to this blog when I discuss “the cast” of this trip to Uganda) mentioned she was looking for a roommate in Nashville and I was looking for a place where it didn’t snow. A perfect opportunity was presented to us both.

Here we are 11 months into being roommates, I’ve decided to accompany Jen on this trip to Uganda, I told Jen two things I would raise $5,000 and I was going to do a photography project with the children we worked with in Uganda. I was confident if I approached friends and family for donations they would come forward and many of you have pledged and for that I’m very grateful. A colleague of mine, her client donated 6 brand new digital cameras for me to take on this trip to use for my photography project. Another dear friend hooked me up with Indigo Restaurant and hopefully a soon to be named coffee shop in Springfield will allow me to display my prints for sale while I’m home during Thanksgiving. Another friend is making it her personal goal to raise funds for a total of 2 beds and yet another is posting a flyer I’ve created to post on her hospital unit.

The point of these stories, is to illustrate, how things in my life that are supposed to happen, happen with ease, doors open and opportunities are presented. Some would say it’s God’s plan, others would say I’m lucky. I’d it's both. I’ve been very blessed with many wonderful opportunities in my life. Some of you know I’m far from a religious person these days (again another blog), but the one thing that has never waivered is my blind faith in trusting that what is happening in my life is serving a purpose that may or may not be apparent to me.

Our trip is just four very short weeks away and the money we raise in order to complete our mission needs to be raised in two weeks (we must allow time for wiring the cash to the vendors we will use in country for the beds). Unless, Jen and I want to roll into Uganda with serious wads of cash strapped to our body, which could present for a really interesting entry in a few weeks.

As I’m writing this blog, Jen just posted on Facebook we need funding for 325 more beds. A bed in Gulu costs $88, if you’re in a financial situation to sponsor one or more or even the cost of 1/4 of a bed. You can visit www.sweetsleep.org to donate online or you can mail a check to Sweet Sleep 308 Timmons St. Nashville, TN 37211. If you reference AJG1209 in the memo, I will receive credit, but it’s not the credit I’m concerned about, reaching our goal is my focus. Ultimately, I’d like to know who donates on my behalf, so after our trip I can properly thank each and everyone of you.

To all of you I’m grateful for listening to my plea and supporting us on this amazing journey to come.

Sweet Sleep Fundraiser at Indigo Restaurant- Springfield, IL

JOIN INDIGO RESTAURANT IN A BENEFIT FOR SWEET SLEEP


Wednesday, November 25th
6:00PM-8:00PM
$20.00/Person
Heavy Hors D’oeuvres
plus Drink Specials


Learn about how you can provide a healthy place for a Ugandan child to sleep.

Purchase photography by April Gulley- all proceeds go towards Sweet Sleep’s December trip to Gulu, Uganda

For More Information and to RSVP, Please email April Gulley at aprilgulley@me.com

For more information on Sweet Sleep, visit www.sweetsleep.org

Follow along as we journey to Gulu, Uganda at:
www.sweetsleep.blogspot.com and
www.gulleysadventures.blogspot.com

Saturday 14 November 2009

A Little About Me

I just came across this list I made and posted on FB over a year ago (clearly as I was still living in Chicago). I do love watching the sunrise over a tarmac. Stay tuned for further discussion on this list.


1. I love sunrises at O’Hare.
2. I have learned a lot from flying… to be patient and things aren’t always under my control.
3. I love to people watch and make up stories about their lives.
4. I wanted to be a world traveler in 1st grade.
5. I’m not afraid to fly, but I’m pretty sure I’ll die in a plane crash (have thought that since high school).
6. If I could wave my magic wand I’d be a documentary photographer.
7. It’s a good bet if I haven’t been to a destination, I’ll go with you if I have the time and money.
8. I just made a list of the top 25 countries I have to go to before I die, none of them are in Western Europe.
9. I’ve traveled to 12 countries and only 1 (Spain) has been in Western Europe.
10. I’m fascinated with other religions and believe there is more than one way to God.
11. I can balance 4 spoons on my face and will prove it even in the most fancy restaurants.
12. I’m living my dream.
13. I love kids, but I don’t want my own. Auntie A all the way!
14. I have gotten to do some really cool things in my life and need to make a list, because I’m jaded and sometimes don’t realize I’m doing things the average person doesn’t do.
15. I believe everyone in the world regardless of race, religion or income level wants the same things for themselves and their families:
a. They want to be treated with dignity.
b. They want to be able to provide for their families.
c. They want a roof over their heads.
d. They need clean water.
e. When we laugh it all sounds the same.
16. I’m terrible at identifying famous people and when I do see them I never have anything clever to say, so I just ignore them.
17. I think Reality TV is the bane of the American Existence. Except for Biggest Loser☺
18. I love talking to cab drivers and finding out where they are from, how they got to the US and how long they’ve been here.
19. The older I get the braver I become in taking risks.
20. I will live internationally soon. Where- I don’t know.
21. I hate bananas.
22. I am NOT a fruity pastry girl.
23. I believing in begging for forgiveness, instead of asking permission.
24. I’m extremely intuitive.
25. I believe “Well Behaved Women Never Make History”.

Thursday 12 November 2009

8 DAYS...O M G

You say April you are leaving on December 14th, you have a whole month before you leave for Africa. Oh contrare mon frere (is that how you spell on the contrary my brother in french?...hmm can't remember and too lazy too google it).

Please standby while I breathe through my raising blood pressure.

Ok I'm back.

Let's just say my travel sched between now and Dec. 14th is a wee bit insane and when I get back from Africa it doesn't slow down. I think I get to nap on March 16th. Just in time for my birthday!! You know when the month of March is discussed I have to mention that that happens to be my birthday month.

But back to Uganda- yesterday I was in Wolf Camera and asked if they ever do donations to non-profit orgs, the manager said yes. So tonight I have to draft a proposal for them to give me some goods for the used digital cameras all you people are donating to me!! Do you think Wolf would be suspicious if I requested a Hasselblad camera and a couple of lens? :) I'll be sure to give Wolf a major shout out if they hook me up with the request. Please note I'm NOT asking them for cameras, but the equipment to support it. I'm still looking for a couple more cameras, so drop me a note if you have one you can send me.

On another exciting note a not to be mentioned (yet) but very popular coffee shop in Springfield may let me sell some of my photos at their store...exactly where I'll fit in getting them matted and framed in the next 10 days that's TBD, but I'll make it happen if they say yes. I think I may need another B-12 shot...I wonder how many of those you can get in a month?

That's all I got for now. Thanks for reading!!

Wednesday 11 November 2009

Original Email- the reason Why I'm going to Uganda.

I just realized this blog doesn't tell you about why I'm going to Uganda. So in case you didn't receive the email or see the note on Facebook. Here is the email I sent out today. Apologies to those that have read it.

Dear Friends and Family,

I hope this email finds you well in both health and spirit. Many of you know, two years ago I quit my full time job, to pursue both photography and philanthropy. While both have been slow to manifest, this year both are starting to pick up pace.

I have been blessed with the opportunity to travel with my long time friend and current roommate Jen Gash to Gulu, Uganda for 3 weeks, from December 14 to January 5. Jen founded Sweet Sleep 6 years ago as a project, building beds for orphans in the Eastern European country, Moldova. Over the past 6 years, Sweet Sleep has gone from a project- building beds for one Moldovan orphanage, to a full fledge non-profit organization building beds for multiple orphanages in Moldova and Uganda, with the potential of soon adding Haiti to the list of countries Sweet Sleep operates in.

Gulu, Uganda is home to approximately 1 million displaced Ugandans, with over 3/4 of them children in child headed households. Sweet Sleep is currently campaigning to raise $40,000 to begin placing beds along with mosquito nets in these child headed households. Above you will find two pictures of the current “mattresses” many children sleep on in Uganda (most children in Gulu sleep on the ground). Most Americans’ pets sleep on beds nicer than the old mattresses featured. The photograph in the middle is of beds Sweet Sleep placed in a Ugandan orphanage this summer.

While Jen and I are in Uganda we will place as many beds in huts that we have raised money for, we will also be working with other non-profits currently based in Gulu to determine where else beds can be placed and how else Sweet Sleep can make an impact in the lives of children living in Gulu. I will be photographing our trip daily and both Jen and I will be blogging about our experience. You will be able to follow me at www.gulleysadventures.blogspot.com. I’ve already begun blogging!

I also plan on taking over 5-6 inexpensive digital cameras. My plan is to allow children we come in contact with to shoot whatever they choose, I’m very interested to see their lives through their own eyes. I’m still developing this component of the trip, so stay tuned to my blog.

This of course is where you come in, I’ve pledged to Jen that I can raise $5,000. I understand that times are lean for many this year, but I have faith that this money can be raised.

Here are ways you can contribute:

Make a monetary donation to Sweet Sleep. It is tax deductible:
Write your check to Sweet Sleep and mail it to:
Sweet Sleep
308 Timmons St.
Nashville, TN 37211
Please be sure to put AJG1209 in the memo line.

In Illinois- Hire me the week of Thanksgiving to shoot your family portraits. In lieu of paying me, make a donation to Sweet Sleep.

If you own a business or know someone who’d be willing to donate a percentage of one day’s business’ profits, please contact me to discuss the details of how we can make that happen.

Purchase one of my photographs between now and the end of the year, all of the profits will go directly towards the funding of this mission. Click on the following link to see my photos for sale:
http://aprilgulley.zenfolio.com/

Please pass along this email to any friends or family you feel would be interested in Sweet Sleep.

If you have any other fun ways to help raise funds for this trip, I’m willing to listen to other ideas.

Due to luggage restrictions, etc donations for actual items are not currently being accepted.

However, if you do have a digital camera or other digital camera equipment you’d be willing to donate for the side component of our trip. I would love to speak with you further about the items in need.

You can also learn more about Sweet Sleep at www.sweetsleep.org

I thank you in advance for your consideration and contribution to this important mission.

Love,



April

Fundraising Launch=Major Adrenaline Rush

I'm not sure if it's the excitement of getting this fundraising launch/trip off the ground OR the B-12 shot I got at Shots, Etc, right after my Yellow Fever Vaccination on Monday. But I'm seriously buzzzzzzing.

Last night as I was preparing to send out the email for this trip. I dotted my i's and crossed my t's, took a deep breath and hit send...and waited...and waited..and then I received an error message. I fussed with that email for 2 hours, finally gave up and went to bed.

This morning, I bounded out of bed and was DETERMINED to get the email out. Do you know it took me an hour to get it sent out, I sent it 4 times, breaking up my address book in quarters. I swear I was being taught patience last night and this morning. But it's all good now.

The response has been very wonderful, with people already sending money, checking out my photographs to purchase and offering their used digital camera equipment. I still have a long way to go, but the immediate response has been POSITIVE! For that I am thankful.

If you do want to purchase my photographs on Zenfolio- http://aprilgulley.zenfolio.com/. You can add items into your cart, it gives you the prices for the size you want, choose your shipping, pay by your preferred method and they ship it out to you. This is my first time doing this, so if you do purchase a print. I'd love your feedback on how the process worked. AND of course if you are not happy with your product, please let me know and I will correct it!!

A family member asked if I had a paypal account to send a donation to me directly. If that is easier for you, my paypal account is aprilgulley at mac.com (please note- I intentionally didn't do the @ symbol in the body of this blog, so spammers can't spam me). You would not receive a tax credit if you did pay by this method since you're giving the money to me and not Sweet Sleep directly.

I have to run, I'm not really sure to where at this very moment, but I have lots to do today.

xox- ajg

Tuesday 10 November 2009

It's booked Dano!!

Woohoo!! Today I booked my ticket to Uganda!! I am sooooo excited!

About 2 months ago Jen (my roommate and founder of Sweet Sleep- www.sweetsleep.org) asked if I'd like to travel to Gulu, Uganda with her. I said "Absolutely! As long as I'm not offered any work during that time". About a month later I was offered work and I told Jen I would have to take the work over the trip to Gulu.

Two weeks ago, the client I would be working with mentioned the program was going to be pushed back a couple more weeks. As she was telling me this, I decided if the program was a complete cancel, it was a sign that I was to go to Uganda with Jen. Last week, I received the email that the program was pushed back further and they would not need my services for the pre-planning portion of the program. While, I was sad to lose the income, I almost bounded out of my seat, because I knew I was supposed to go to Uganda with Jen.

I sent Jen an email and said "hey I'm going to Uganda with you!" I then sent her an itinerary, telling her that if I was flying all the way to Africa I was flying on my preferred airline, which is American. Though we leave the states on separate flights, we actually meet up in Brussels, so we'll fly from Brussels to Entebbe, Uganda together. We both get our miles on our preferred airlines, it all works out!

We are going to be doing some really important work during our 3 week trip. Our current mission is to give over 400 beds/mosquito nets to the children of Gulu. As well as partnering with a couple of different organizations to determine how else Sweet Sleep can provide beds to more children in Gulu for their upcoming 2010 mission trips.

I of course will have camera in hand capturing every moment I can. I also have decided to take over with us a few donated point and shoot cameras to allow the children to shoot with, I'm very interested to see what transpires from this experiment.

Many of you know I do not want children, I've said that for decades....however, there's always been one caveat. I'd consider adopting a kid from a foreign country, I wanted to do it before Angelina and Madonna made it popular. I'm already fighting off the urge to bring a whole brood home with me....keep reminding me about how much my life would change would ya!!?!
I can't wait to hug on these kids. I know I am going to be forever changed after this trip, I can already feel it.